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Caregiving: When should I get involved? (March 2008)
By Home Helpers, Jennifer Anastasiades

For many of our client's families, when they first begin to seek help from outside of the family unit to help a loved one who is aging or recovering from an illness or injury the task seems daunting. There is often second guessing and doubting which takes place along with a feeling of not wanting to be intrusive into a loved one or parent's life. In addition, a family member does not want to appear as if they are taking independence away if things really are okay. Below are key points to consider when deciding if now is the right time to be proactive and take action.

Medical Condition: Has their medical condition recently changed? Does this present limitations now or in the future, for the short or long term?
Driving: Are they still comfortable driving? Are they able to remember and navigate familiar routes?
Daily Tasks: Are they able to manage their daily hygiene? Do they appear clean? Are everyday tasks overwhelming or very time consuming? Are they able to shop for and prepare proper meals?
Safety: Are they able to remember to turn off the stove and other appliances? Are there obstacles in their environment that could pose a problem or potential fall? (i.e. area rugs, large furniture, stairs) If there was an emergency, could they react appropriately? Is the bathroom properly equipped? Do they remember to lock the door and windows?
Medication: Can they manage their medications? Are they taking medications on an appropriate schedule? Are prescriptions refilled timely?

It may be time to help a loved one who is struggling unnecessarily and to help them face head-on the challenges in their everyday life. Remember to communicate your intent is to help provide for their needs while their wishes are respected.

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